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EXTRAORDINARY COUPLES - ACCENTUATING THE POSITIVE
Learn more about yourself in relationship to your partner.
Learn more about your partner in relationship to you.
Create
more passion, excitement, fun and intimacy for yourself and your
partner by focusing on what works and what you both want rather than
what doesn't work and what you don't want.
As one of the partners in an Extraordinary Couple you:
- Are more fully conscious of your partner.
This occurs by becoming more aware of what your partner wants for
himself or herself, for you and for the two of you as a couple. This
includes hopes and dreams (your future together - what you are
building) as well as your day-to-day life (the quality and experience
of the life you share now). Even though you think you know, there is
more to learn. There is no focus on what your partner does not want.
This
outcome requires that you become increasingly clear about yourself,
your partner and the two of you together so that your focus is on now
and where you are headed rather than on the past and where you have or
have not been.
- Take more ownership for your partner getting what she or he wants.
Again, this includes his or her hopes and dreams as well as the day-to-day quality and experience of life.
This outcome requires that you take even more ownership for creating what you want - now and in your future.
- Develop and practice personal strategies for interacting with your partner.
This means interacting in ways that work for both of you, including
your partner having an even greater experience of being supported in
what matters most to him or her.
This
outcome requires that you become clearer about and committed to the
ways you "show up" in relationship with your partner that strengthens
the bond between the two of you.
- Clarify the ways you and your partner are already "on the same page." How are your own hopes and dreams, and the day-to-day quality and experience of life you want, aligned with your partner's.
This
outcome requires that are willing to focus on the most positive aspects
of your relationship. It requires that you connect, at both the
intellectual and emotional level, with why this is the person with whom
you chose to spend your life.
- Write and "publish" an updated script with your partner for your relationship.
With your partner, you develop shared strategies for participating with
one another in ways that result in both of you having the experience of
moving in the same direction - in sync and with a deeper connection
with and appreciation of each other.
This
outcome requires that you are willing to take a stand for what you want
rather than settle for "okay" or "fine." Are you willing to try
something new - to strengthen what already works and develop some new
strategies - in order to create more passion excitement, fun and
intimacy for you and for your partner?
Extraordinary Couples - Accentuating The Positive takes
place in an upbeat, affirming and fun environment in which the ideas
that "the past is the past" and "that was then, this is now" are given
great weight.
Provided you are willing and prepared to examine and experience your relationship through a forward-looking lens, this is a course for you.
If
one of your priorities in life is to honor yourself and your partner by
strengthening the bond between you, and by having a deeper experience
of the joy that is available to you with this wonderful person in your
life, this is a course for you.
The Extraordinary Couples Retreat is for one to three couples at a time.
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